Tuesday, December 07, 2010

Merry Christmas from Compton - Newsletter Dec. 2010

Syd & Maria
This December has provided a great opportunity for reflection. Last year about this time a very important change occurred in our life -- we were sent out as part of a team from our church (Emmanuel Reformed) to launch their church plant -- City Church of Compton. It was such a joy for Mike and I, as our lives came full circle back to the city we love. Now not only was our ministry continuing in Compton, but our church life could again join that as well. After so much sadness years ago leaving our Compton church, it was a time of great rejoicing and healing.

Last Christmas, we sat as a church planting team in our pastor-to-be’s living room. He (Pat Dirkse) and his wife (Julie) were preparing to move into the property they had purchased in Compton. Once they were settled, we would begin meeting as a church at their new house. Our hearts were full as we anticipated the adventure ahead. I remember we prayed specifically, “Lord, prepare US for all the people You have waiting on Peck Street. We know You have gone before us and placed people there who want to know You -- help us become ready to love them the way You would have us to!”

Before long we had made the transition and were meeting regularly on Peck Street. It quickly became obvious that one of the people God had for us to meet was Maria. Maria was a sweet and bubbly 11-year-old girl (Sydney’s age!) who lived right next door to the Dirkse’s. As she became a regular at City Church, everyone grew to love her. She and Sydney became fast friends as they found they had so much in common -- they both loved to read, loved music, and loved playing soccer. Throughout these months Maria showed an obviously tender heart and spirit toward God. I felt very strongly that God wanted me to take the initiative to sit down with her and go through the Gospel, making sure she fully understood how to have a relationship with Him.

Ironically, the only complication came from the fact that Maria has such great parents! They didn’t really know us, and were (understandably) not yet comfortable with her being at our house. I asked our other church members to pray God would create an opportunity to share with her, and we watched for that door to open up.

By the end of the summer, Maria had joined a Compton United soccer team with Sydney, and Syd would often stop by her house after church. Her parents allowed Maria to attend VBS with Sydney and Zach back at Emmanuel. On that Tuesday of VBS, I felt God’s Spirit prompting me that this should be the day, so I began to pray and asked others to join me. Maria then asked if she could stay at our house for the afternoon and her parents gave their permission. As soon as we got home, I sat down with Maria and explained to her God’s plan for her to have a relationship with Him. I closed with the invitation I had been trained years ago to offer to children, “If you decide this is something you would like to do, you can do it on your own, or ask Sydney or anyone from church to pray with you.” She said she was very grateful for the information and would think about it. Just minutes after we finished my phone rang -- Maria’s family had a sudden change of plans for the day and needed to pick her up right away. As she ran down the driveway to meet her parents, I marveled at God’s perfect, perfect timing.

As the weeks flew by, God opened the doors for Maria and Sydney to attend a new charter school together. We were so excited to have both girls in a great school, and for the opportunity to share carpool with her family. Maria became a regular at our house and Sydney at hers. Our family and church continued to pray for Maria.

Then one Wednesday, Syd tumbled into the car after school and said excitably, “Mom -- this is the day! I asked Maria if she had thought more about asking Jesus into her life, and she said she was waiting to do it with us! She wants to pray with us today at our house!” And sure enough, she did -- as soon as we got settled at the house, Sydney, Maria, and I gathered around our kitchen table. Maria to explained the Gospel back to us, showing that she understood what she was doing, and we prayed together for Christ to forgive her sins and enter her life. It was one of those beautiful moments when we had the privilege to reach out and touch eternity. It was also beautiful to hear her testify to all of City Church the next week, “I just want to celebrate that this week I have become a Christian!” Please join us in praising God for Maria's new life and praying that she will continue to grow as His child.

FAMILY NEEDS
As we close the door on 2010 and look to 2011, we are aware of the ongoing needs of our family. We have a very pressing need to do some serious work on our house. Our house was built in 1945.

An older house presents a lot of challenges with upkeep and repairs – the last time we were able to take on any major projects within our house was 2004. The wear and tear alone since then has really accumulated – paint is old and worn. Rotted wood needs to be replaced. We have windows that need repaired. We have ongoing pest control issues, a leaky roof problem, and some mold in the walls that we are very concerned about. On the positive side, we would build an overhang in our back yard so we can use it for church and outreach gatherings. We estimate we will need at least $9500 to complete these projects.

We know many of you give an end of year donation and would ask that you prayerfully consider helping us with this need! The best way is to respond to this need is to send an extra gift into our CCC account. We have enclosed an extra envelope to expedite this process.

Thanks so much for considering these special needs and for all the continued financial support you send throughout the year. Thanks even more for the prayers that sustain us and protect us and continue to move God to work in our lives and ministry. And thanks to all those of you who have already sent in an extra gift without even knowing our needs! Sometimes the needs that we face and see all around us seem overwhelming until we look back and become overwhelmed at all the needs God has amazingly met for us over the last 15 years! Wow! He is the only One worth following and worthy of all our trust!

May 2011 be a year when we all see the face and hand of Jesus and draw closer to Him! May you shine for Jesus in your little corner of the world. May our family be a light here in Compton and may our city become a light to the WORLD!!!

Wednesday, November 10, 2010

A Dream to Live Upon, by Sydney Herman

We're so proud of our daughter.  When you do work like we do, you always wonder how it will effect your children.  We never thought you kids would grow up hating what their parents do, but you can never know... you just pray a lot!


Sydney has recently written this narrarive for her 6th grade Humanities class.  This illustrated to us her passion for justice that she has developed living here in Compton.  We thank God for the wonderful, passionate leader God has given to us as a daughter.  


And we couldn't be more proud.


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Sydney Herman
2nd draft 5th period English
Mr. XXXXXX

A Dream to Live Upon

As I unlocked my office door, I heard voices. I turned and saw a young Mexican girl. She was cradling a baby in a bloody blanket. Again she spoke.

“You work with immigrants?”

“Yes” I said “Do your parents need me?” as soon as she started crying I know I’ve hit a tender area. I hold the baby as she sinks to the ground. I hold the baby wondering if this young girl is a mom, or a sister. I sit down next to her. Soon she’s calm.

“My parents are dead, now it’s just me and my sister alone.” She hesitates, not sure how to ask what she wants. “I was wondering if you could help me.”

“Let’s go to my office, and talk.” I hand the baby back and stand up. When we are in my office I give her food. Then she tells me her story.

“My name is Julieta. I’m 12 and orphaned.” She pauses “When I was 10 my family found out that my papa had cancer. My mama decided to move to the U.S. The January after my eleventh birthday we started the journey. We crossed the hot, humid, dessert first. Our transportation? A mule. Soon my mama got pregnant, week later my papa died. 6 months later, we’re in the U.S. A month after my birthday, my sister Maria was born.” She looked down at her sister. “Soon after my mama died. So now I’m left to take care of my sister. I’m poor, no papers, no home, I need help. My sister is a citizen, but that I can’t prove.” I nodded my head. I’ve nodded my head. I’ve had some cases like this but never this young and depressing.

“So what do you need?”

“At least a job.”

“I can do better! Don’t you want papers, rights?” Julieta blushed, “I thought everything would be too expensive.”

“Who would make you pay?”

“12 other lawyers.”

“You won’t get that here.” I heard the back door slam.

“Kathleen, you here?” It was my partner Esperanza coming in. 
 
“Office!” I yelled

“You really need to get on that per- Who’s this?”

She stood by my door staring at Julieta.

“My newest clients.”

“Ooh, Hi I’m Esperanza.”

“I’m Julieta.” Esperanza looked at me,

“What’s the case?” It was my turn to blush, just as I was about to answer,
“AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA” saved by the bell, or should I say baby? Julieta excused herself from the room. So I caught E up.

“Free huh? We could do that” she replied “I’ll take care of Mark’s case for you.”

“It’s more that that, they don’t have a place to stay, food to eat.”

“I would take them in but I can’t, not with my baby, and Grace would THROW A FIT!” 
 
“I think I could.”

“Would Seth be fine with it?”

“I’ll find out later.” Julieta came back in.

“How would you feel with spending the night at my home?”

“Ohm, You wouldn’t be intruding,” 
 
“Yes.” It was settled. I called my husband to let him know, he WAS fine with it. So he came and took them to our house and I worked.


2 MONTHS LATER
“It’s official, I just got the call!” Julieta smiled. “Okay “MOM!” I was officially the mom of two. The front door banged as Seth walks in. 

“It’s official!” I tell him “Their ours!” Amazing!” he says “MMMMMMMMAAAAAWWWWW!

“There’s the siren!” my husband said as he go gets our baby.


5½ YEARS LATER
“MOM! I got it, its right here!!!!” I ran into the room.

“What?”

“My green card mom!” My not so little jewel was jumping up and down, tears streaming down her face. Tears start running down mine too. 
 
“Mommy why tears?” Maria says entering the room,
“Oh sweetheart” I say, “I’m excited.” Understandingly she runs over to give Julieta a hug.

Wow, I think who knew this is what would happen from a passion that started when I was 11. Who knew that almost having to quit a job you love, or worse lose it could become a dream, a dream that has turned into my reality.

Friday, November 05, 2010

The One That (Almost) Got Away


Johnny was with us for almost a year. He somewhat haphazardly joined our under 15 soccer team in 2008. He was an amazing player, the kind that would score one or two goals a game without trying very hard.
Unfortunately, that was his downfall. Most of our players work very hard, focus on their skill level and strive to improve. Most become very good as a result of the effort they put in. However, every once in a while we see a player with natural ability, coordination and great athletic skill. Johnny fell into that category. One would assume that Johnny had a typical story of the athlete that everyone loved and was kind of passed through school and sports because everyone wanted him to play for their team. Believe it or not, this happens even before high school.
Johnny played almost the full fall season and then began not to show up for practices. Despite the coaches calling, reaching out, visiting the home, Johnny was soon hard to find.
I remember going to Johnny's house, talking to his mom trying to convince them that it was important for Johnny to learn commitment and come to practice and games. I explained that we weren’t just about soccer, that we also focused on grades, responsibility and leadership development. His mom couldn't have been more enthusiastic she agreed with all that I said and told Johnny he had to participate with us every practice and game. I offered to personally be involved in helping with tutoring and assisting them in anything I could do.
Things got better, for about a week.  Then I didn't see Johnny for several months. One day as I was walking through our local Target, I saw him walking alone through the store. As we started talking, it was obvious he was very high.  I've seen this before. When our kids start messing with drugs, you learn that things have changed.   Now everything becomes much more difficult for them and for anyone helping them to get back on the right track. 
One of the most significant lessons we have learned is that you cannot want change more for people than they do for themselves. 
Fast forward a year and a half the coordinator of the Compton Initiative work days knocked on a door of a Compton house to gauge interest in having their house painted.  A high school boy answered.  In the conversation, she asked why he wasn’t in school. He said that his mom hadn't completed the paperwork yet. Obviously concerned she began to ask more questions.  A few hours later she called me to see if I knew a “Johnny” that used to play for Compton United.  God was not done chasing Johnny.  This initiated a meeting between Alma the coordinator, Johnny, his parents and I, where we all let Johnny have it! We (Alma especially) scolded the parents and explained to them the importance of Johnny being in school. Johnny was supposed to go back to school and come practice with our under 16 team again. He wouldn't be able to play in games yet but he could work his way back in.
In the next couple of days Alma registered him at the local high school. Johnny and his dad were at practice. The teams practice schedule does overlap with the after school programs Johnny is required to attend but it looks like he will be at practice when he can.  Through this God showed me once again that He does not give up on us. A boy in Compton that practically everyone gave up on, including his parents do not fall through God's cracks. 
Please pray for Johnny, Compton United, the Compton Initiative, and all of us that we can be faithful and God's representatives to the youth and families in our city of Compton. 

Changed Lives at Camp

I'm still not sure of all the reasons God changed our South Africa trip this summer. We raised the money for all our expenses in the country, but could not raise enough for the ever increasing airline fares.

However, one of the reasons was for some of our players to go to a Christian soccer camp at UCLA. This we received several partial scholarships for five players to attend the week-long Fellowship of Christian Athletes camp.

As a result Jose, Joshua, Sergio, Jorge and Andrew were able to go. They slept in the dorms, ate in the food court with the other college students and received high level soccer training. Each night they had a worship service which gradually presented the Gospel. On the second to the last night, 3 of the boys went up to receive Jesus into their lives! Andrew, who was already a Christian, went forward with the others to help them feel more comfortable!

We have seen real change in these players lives! They have become very enthusiastic about the new found faith and regularly attend the Bible study that Ramiro, who is their head coach, leads every week. (Yes, this is the same Ramiro that we have talked about for the last 15 years! He coaches our under 16 year old team. It is amazing to see spiritual multiplication happen!).

Please pray for these guys, that they would continue to grow in their faith and truly know the Lord in deeper and deeper ways.

Our long-term plan is to still attempt to take a leadership development trip to the World Cup every four years.  On the other years we are hoping to take as many teams as possible to an annual Athletes In Action tournament in Ohio, at AIA headquarters.  This would also be a part of our leadership development program and allow for AIA to use their corporate facilities to minister to urban soccer teams from all around the country.

Monday, June 07, 2010

Soccer for Urban Youth and Leadership Development: Compton United Soccer Club

by Mike Herman | Apr 02, 2010

Summary

Our Mission: Through the sport of soccer and the resources of US Soccer, develop a new generation of leaders who excel in all aspects of life: mentally, physically, socially, spiritually, and emotionally, to ultimately help develop our community into a model of social, economic and spiritual transformation.

About Us

Name
Mike Herman


Organization
Compton United Soccer Club

Country
United States, CA, Los Angeles County

Organization Name
Compton United Soccer Club

Organization Website
www.comptonunited.org

Organization Phone
310 402-2872

Organization Address
415 South Pearl Ave. Compton, CA 90221

Is your organization a:
Non‐profit/NGO/citizen sector organization

Organization Country
United States, CA, Los Angeles County

The Idea

Project Name
Soccer for urban youth and leadership development

Country your work focuses on
United States, CA, Los Angeles County

Describe Your Idea
Our Mission: Through the sport of soccer and the resources of US Soccer, develop a new generation of leaders who excel in all aspects of life: mentally, physically, socially, spiritually, and emotionally, to ultimately help develop our community into a model of social, economic and spiritual transformation.

Innovation

What makes your idea unique?
Why is this so important?
  • Everyone deserves a chance to play soccer
  • The US is still the only country on the planet where soccer is a suburban sport
  • US Soccer is missing immeasurable talent by not effectively plugging into the independent Latino leagues
  • Soccer can be a much more significant key to race relations in America than it has been so far
  • Soccer is a worldwide language and a platform for leadership and community development
  • We use soccer to provide social change through our five stages of development:
  • Athletic,
  • Academic,
  • Character, and
  • Leadership Development, for the ultimate goal of
  • Community Development

Impact

What impact have you had?
Since our inception in 2006 we have touched over 700 kids and youth with athletic, academic and leadership development via club soccer teams, leadership camps, tutoring and mentoring.

The Problem
A large percentage of inner city neighborhoods play soccer/football. However in the US, Club Soccer is played in suburban communities and usually very expensive. This essentially locks out urban kids from participating in the benefits and development programming set up by the US Soccer Federation.

The result is ethnic, socioeconomic and geographical disadvantage for urban youth trying to use their passion for soccer to further the soccer and education and opportunities.
Soccer can be a powerful tool for education, race-relations, economic and leadership development. However, in the US, soccer is almost exclusively about competition and winning.

We can and are changing that.

Actions
Our Programs:
Compton United Soccer Club strives for excellence and innovation in bring the best in urban soccer programs to the youth of the Compton area.
Below is a listing of some of these programs:
Soccer Programs
  • US Soccer Competitive Club Teams
  • Youth Developmental/Recreational Teams
  • Futsal Teams
  • Indoor Futsal Recreational League
  • * Creation of Compton United Youth Soccer Academy (currently in planning stages)
  • Soccer Leadership Programs
  • Academic Tutoring
  • Crash Elite Leadership Mentoring Program
  • Urban Soccer Leadership Academy, Compton
  • Urban Soccer Collaborative National Leadership Soccer Camp
  • International Youth Leadership Soccer Trips
  • Community Development Programs
  • Soccer field creation
  • Economic development through local businesses and job creation
Results
We have and will continue to see student-players attitudes change, relationships with parents become stronger, grades remarkably improve, work ethic strengthen, commitment and dedication grow.

100% of players in high school have graduated thus far.

Many of them have gone on to college.

What will it take for your project to be successful over the next three years? Please address each year separately, if possible.
2010
Home field development- in partnership with Compton College (El Camino College- Compton Center) we are building two new soccer fields for Compton United as well as the college's men's and women's teams. This project needs to be completed 0n time to help stabilize our places to practice and play home games.

2011
We will need to develop more coaches and teams to begin to increase numbers of players to continue to build youth leaders in Compton.

2012
We need to develop our Urban Youth Soccer Leadership Academy. This formalized training program will increase skill level to help get our players to the next level in soccer, academics, athletic performance and college preparatory programming.

What would prevent your project from being a success?
Funding has been and could continue to be our largest roadblock. We serve in a community that cannot within itself sustain such programs. We rely on outside funding and grants to provide and grow our programming.

How many people will your project serve annually?
101‐1000

What is the average monthly household income in your target community, in US Dollars?
$1000 - 4000

Does your project seek to have an impact on public policy?
Yes

Sustainability

What stage is your project in?
Operating for 1‐5 years

In what country?
United States, CA, Los Angeles County

Is your initiative connected to an established organization?
Yes

If yes, provide organization name.
Compton United Soccer Club

How long has this organization been operating?
1‐5 years

Does your organization have a Board of Directors or an Advisory Board?
Yes

Does your organization have any non-monetary partnerships with NGOs?
Yes

Does your organization have any non-monetary partnerships with businesses?
Yes

Does your organization have any non-monetary partnerships with government?
Yes

Please tell us more about how these partnerships are critical to the success of your innovation.
We partner with a number of organizations such as The Salvation Army- Compton, Game Plan Academy, Los Angeles Galaxy, Chivas USA, US Youth Soccer , etc.

We have relationships with several corporate sponsors.

What are the three most important actions needed to grow your initiative or organization?
1. Field Development
2. Board Development
2. Sponsor Relations
3. Long-term relationship agreement with Compton College

The Story

What was the defining moment that led you to this innovation?
In 2006, I launched the first season of “Compton United” – an official, US Soccer sanctioned soccer club for kids in Compton and the surrounding area.

Up until that point, no such thing had been available. Soccer is everywhere in our community, and the talent level is stunning, but our youth play in independent Hispanic leagues that are not involved with the traditional competitive soccer system. While our kids may have some of the best talent in the country (literally), they have no opportunities to use that talent to open any other doors for their future.
In Southern California, like most of the country, college and team scouts do their recruiting through soccer clubs. To play in a club, you have to have the funds to do so (they are incredibly expensive), a local club available to try out for, and/or the transportation to travel to a not-so-local club.

As I watched our Compton kids grow up playing soccer, I saw incredible talent but nowhere for that talent to be used to help the player build his or her future. I then began to understand the inequity of the system, how these talented soccer players where essentially held out of the opportunities that the US Soccer system offered (i.e. the big tournaments, college recruiting, national & international travel. Olympic Development Program for youth, etc.)

I became increasingly aware that something needed to be done. However, just creating a soccer team wasn’t going to be enough. We needed to build an entire program where education, tutoring, leadership development, community service, and character would all be emphasized and lived out.
Then finally, after two years of dreaming and planning and networking – the Compton United Soccer Club was born.

We started with one boys’ U17 team (17 and under), one sponsor to buy the uniforms, some borrowed equipment, and a whole pallet of donated PowerAde for us to sell.

Our family spent every weekend last fall with the team, driving all over to games and tournaments and cheering them on. By the time the season ended, the boys had won every game but one and taken the league title. The regional soccer magazine had featured us on the cover, telling the story of Compton United. Fox Sports Soccer channel had created a 5-min video on CU that was running in between shows. Most importantly we had fallen in love with 14 new teenagers and their families.
Number 10 on the team was Victor, a defender with a great work ethic and skill who led by his solid example of determination and consistency. Victor was one you could always count on in a game – when he was needed, he was there. He was a quiet kid who was well-liked, always teachable, humble, and a silent leader.

In one of the most memorable moments of the season, our team was playing in the exclusive Rancho Palos Verde against a team of wealthy kids. Unhappy that his team was getting beat by a bunch of poor Latinos from Compton, one player turned, spit on Victor, and remarked angrily, “Just remember, your parents work for my parents”.

In an amazing show of character, Victor did not retaliate, but rallied his teammates to play even harder. When we finished the game 3-2, it was our sweetest victory of the season.

Soon after that, my wife and I were out of town and received word that Victor had been tragically shot and killed.
He had been riding home from an indoor soccer game with his brother driving and his two younger brothers in the backseat. During an attempted carjacking, Victor took a bullet through his upper body while trying to protect his older brother.

He died on the way to the hospital. As you can imagine, this news was devastating to all of us.

What followed was two weeks filled with tears and sorrow but also a great sense of pride.

We witnessed the mind-numbing pain of parents who’ve had their entire family devastated by another's lust for a car. We saw the lost look in a teen’s eyes as he stood over the open casket of a lifelong friend, his hand reaching out to touch Victor’s face. And I understood a new definition of hell, as the guttural wailings of a mother who’d lost her teenage son echoed off the vaulted marble walls of a basement mausoleum.
We also witnessed amazing strength in the youth in Compton.

The week before the service they spent every day going door to door, hosting a soccer tournament, washing cars, selling tee-shirts/ and anything else they could think of to raise money so that Victor’s family could afford his funeral. One morning they headed to the high school at 7 am -- summer school was in session, so the boys went classroom to classroom, passing the hat to all the teachers and students present. They raised almost $200 that day. They spent every evening at his parent’s house attending prayer vigils. They brought his family pictures and made tee-shirts and signed and framed his soccer jersey – anything to stand with each other and surround the family with the support they needed.  For the most part, they did it without parents or adults supervising them or organizing their efforts. Their creativity and initiative was profound.

Though many images are seared into my heart from that week, one stands out above the rest. Before I share, here’s a little context. Throughout the years of playing on high school and league teams, the players have ended every win with a special ritual. They circle up with arms around each other’s shoulders, locking them together, and then jump together around in a circle and they in unison call out a Spanish victory cheer. It is always a beautiful, inspiring display of solidarity and friendship, victory and celebration -- a symbol of all the good things in sports.

At the end of the burial service in the basement of the mausoleum, Victor’s older brother requested that all his friends step forward. Thirty to forty high school and college-aged guys crowded in, circled arms, and to the wails of Victor’s grieving mother and father, they did that cheer. It was absolutely electric in the corridor, as though everyone’s pain met collectively in the midst of that circle. When they finished, the boys clung to one another desperately, pouring out all their grief, weeping and laying out their broken hearts. The grief of the rest of us in the room surrounded them. This lasted for several minutes. The pain and beauty there were almost too powerful to behold – it was one of the most moving experiences of my life.

Eventually the circle begun to brake up and the boys began to file out. Everyone hugged everyone else; whether you knew the person did not matter.

In the middle to a large group hug, I said to them, “I wish everyone could see and understand that you are the youth of Compton. You all have done such an amazing job holding up each other and Victor’s family -- Compton has never been more proud.”

It’s true – they are the youth of Compton. Many from outside our community would look at their baggy clothes, brown skin, and tattoos, and make assumptions that they are hard-hearted, uncaring, dangerous, menacing kids. Those assumptions would be wrong. They are not gang-bangers or drug dealers; they are not the nameless faces of thieves or murderers. They are Frank and Juan and Jose and Luis. Yes many of them have drunk their share of alcohol and smoked some weed along the way, as many teenagers in the suburbs have. Yes they use language that I often wish they wouldn’t and most don’t understand the reality of their purpose and place in life.

But they are also caring and respectful kids who love their families, support their friends, and are a delight to those around them. They are kids that are misunderstood, under challenged and given-up on.

They are why Compton United exists.

Tell us about the social innovator behind this idea.
Mike Herman is on staff with Athletes in Action and has been a youth and community developer in Compton for 15 years.
He and his wife moved in to the area to help pioneer the S.A.Y. Yes! Centers for Youth Development movement which now stretches all across the US.

Mike and Tonya have two biological and four "community kids" which they also call part of their family.

How did you first hear about Changemakers?
Through another organization or company

If through another, please provide the name of the organization or company
LA 84 Foundation



The above was taken from the Compton United Application for the Ashoka Changemakers 2010 Changing Lives Through Football Competition- http://www.changemakers.com/en-us/football

The Compton United Entry- http://www.changemakers.com/en-us/node/74131

Wednesday, March 17, 2010

Compton kids in South Africa?

Kids from Compton don't usually get around much. Some haven't been two hours away to the mountains. Some haven't even been to the beach 20 minutes away.

So how is it possible that 10 Compton kids are planning to go to the other side of the globe to Johannesburg, South Africa?

In one word... soccer (or futbol, football, etc.).

Soccer is undeniably, the most universal and popular sport in the world. It is played everywhere. From the dirt fields of South America to the plains of Kenya, to the slums of Liverpool where the game was founded, anyone can be a "footballer". The game does not discriminate by age, size, race, creed, color or socioeconomic status.

Sports in general, and soccer specifically, can be a powerful tool to bring communities together – communities like Compton and Mamelodi, a poor suburb outside of Johannesburg, South Africa.

Our Compton United kids are meeting up with African kids in Mamelodi to play in the Hope Cup Tournament. Bridge to Cross (the organization that has brought the model of Boys and Girls Clubs to South Africa) hosts this annual tournament. The Compton United Boy's Under 15 team will participate with 16 other international youth teams in a week- long celebration of youth and hope.

Jose Hernandez, the Captain of the Compton United U15 team is excited about the trip. He says, “I am excited because we will show other kids that not only professionals can travel around the world but we can as well. The best thing about going to South Africa is that we all get to have a new experience in soccer, and we get to visit a new place that none of us have been, and learn about a different culture”.

The main mission of Compton United and Bridge to Cross goes far more just soccer games. Soccer is a tremendous tool for youth and leadership development; this lies at the heart of the two organizations. Hope Cup players will also participate in a large community service project, as they help repair and build a school in Mamelodi. They will also visit the Apartheid Museum in Johannesburg, and have discussions on race in their cultures.

Compton and Mamelodi are quite different but also very similar. They both have kids full of potential but limited on resources. They both have teens and young adults that have lost most, if not all, the hope they had as children. They are also both communities devastated by poverty, hunger, homelessness, sickness, crime and despair.

The Hope Cup players will see firsthand how hope can transform people and ultimately transform communities.

The players and staff are tremendously excited about this trip. It will be life changing for everyone.

However, funding has been slow and everyone is working hard to bring in investors for this once-in-a-lifetime experience.

For more information on the trip, please visit, http://tr.im/cuscwc2010b

For more information on the fund raising, please visit, http://tr.im/cuscwc2010

Once you choose hope, anything's possible. -Christopher Reeve

Monday, January 11, 2010

My First Column in The South Los Angeles Report

OPINION: The Story of Compton United and Victor

By Mike Herman, President/Founder of Compton United Soccer Club (left)

In 2006, I launched the first season of “Compton United” – an official, US Soccer sanctioned soccer club for kids in Compton and the surrounding area. Up until that point, no such thing had been available. Soccer is everywhere in our community, and the talent level is stunning, but our youth play in independent Hispanic leagues that are not involved with the traditional competitive soccer system. While our kids may have some of the best talent in the country (literally), they have no opportunities to use that talent to open any other doors for their future.

In Southern California, like most of the country, college and team scouts do their recruiting through soccer clubs. To play in a club, you have to have the funds to do so (they are incredibly expensive), a local club available to try out for, and/or the transportation to travel to a not-so-local club.

As I watched our Compton kids grow up playing soccer, I saw incredible talent but nowhere for that talent to be used to help the player build his or her future. I then began to understand the inequity of the system, how these talented soccer players where essentially held out of the opportunities that the US Soccer system offered (i.e. the big tournaments, college recruiting, national & international travel, Olympic Development Program for youth, etc.)

I became increasingly aware that something needed to be done. However, just creating a soccer team wasn’t going to be enough. We needed to build an entire program where education, tutoring, leadership development, community service, and character would all be emphasized and lived out.

Then finally, after two years of dreaming and planning and networking – the Compton United Soccer Club was born.

We started with one boys’ U17 team (17 and under), one sponsor to buy the uniforms, some borrowed equipment, and a whole pallet of donated PowerAde for us to sell.

imageOur family spent every weekend last fall with the team, driving all over to games and tournaments and cheering them on. By the time the season ended, the boys had won every game but one and taken the league title. The regional soccer magazine had featured us on the cover, telling the story of Compton United. Fox Sports Soccer channel had created a 5-min blip on CU that was running in between shows. Most importantly we had fallen in love with 14 new teenagers and their families.

Number 10 on the team was Victor, a defender with a great work ethic and skill who led by his solid example of determination and consistency. Victor was one you could always count on in a game – when he was needed, he was there. He was a quiet kid who was well-liked, always teachable, humble, and a silent leader.

In one of the most memorable moments of the season, our team was playing in the exclusive Rancho Palos Verde against a team of wealthy kids. Unhappy that his team was getting beat by a bunch of poor Latinos from Compton, one player turned, spit on Victor, and remarked angrily, “Just remember, your parents work for my parents."

In an amazing show of character, Victor did not retaliate, but rallied his teammates to play even harder. When we finished the game 3-2, it was our sweetest victory of the season.

Soon after that, my wife and I were out of town and received word that Victor had been tragically shot and killed.

He had been riding home from an indoor soccer game with his brother driving and his two younger brothers in the backseat. During an attempted carjacking, Victor took a bullet through his upper body while trying to protect his older brother.

He died on the way to the hospital. As you can imagine, this news was devastating to all of us.

What followed was two weeks filled with tears and sorrow but also a great sense of pride.

We witnessed the mind-numbing pain of parents who’ve had their entire family devastated by someone else’s lust for a car. We saw the lost look in a teen’s eyes as he stood over the open casket of a lifelong friend, his hand reaching out to touch Victor’s face. And I understood a new definition of hell, as the guttural wailings of a mother who’d lost her teenage son echoed off the vaulted marble walls of a basement mausoleum.

We also witnessed amazing strength of the youth in Compton.

The week before the service they spent every day going door to door, hosting a soccer tournament, washing cars, selling tee-shirts, and anything else they could think of to raise money so that Victor’s family could afford his funeral. One morning they headed to the high school at 7 am -- summer school was in session, so the boys went classroom to classroom, passing the hat to all the teachers and students present. They raised almost $200 that day. They spent every evening at his parent’s house attending prayer vigils. They brought his family pictures and made tee-shirts and signed and framed his soccer jersey – anything to stand with each other and surround the family with the support they needed.

For the most part, they did it without parents or adults supervising them or organizing their efforts. Their creativity and initiative was profound.

Though many images are seared into my heart from that week, one stands out above the rest. Before I share, here’s a little context: Throughout the years of playing on high school and league teams, the players have ended every win with a special ritual. They circle up with arms around each other’s shoulders, locking them together, and then jump together around in a circle and they in unison call out a Spanish victory cheer. It is always a beautiful, inspiring display of solidarity and friendship, victory and celebration -- a symbol of all the good things in sports.

At the end of the burial service in the basement of the mausoleum, Victor’s older brother requested that all his friends step forward. Thirty to forty high school and college-aged guys crowded in, circled arms, and to the wails of Victor’s grieving mother and father, they did that cheer. It was absolutely electric in the corridor, as though everyone’s pain met collectively in the midst of that circle. When they finished, the boys clung to one another desperately, pouring out all their grief, weeping and laying out their broken hearts. The grief of the rest of us in the room surrounded them. This lasted for several minutes. The pain and beauty there were almost too powerful to behold – it was one of the most moving experiences of my life.

Eventually the circle broke up and the boys began to file out. Everyone hugged everyone else; whether you knew the person did not matter.

In the middle to a large group hug, I said to them, “I wish everyone could see and understand that you are the youth of Compton. You all have done such an amazing job holding up each other and Victor’s family -- Compton has never been more proud.”

It’s true – they are the youth of Compton. Many from outside our community would look at their baggy clothes, brown skin, and tattoos, and make assumptions that they are hard-hearted, uncaring, dangerous, menacing kids. Those assumptions would be wrong. They are not gang-bangers or drug dealers; they are not the nameless faces of thieves or murderers. They are Frank and Juan and Jose and Luis. Yes many of them have drunk their share of alcohol and smoked some weed along the way, as many teenagers in the suburbs have. Yes, they use language that I often wish they wouldn’t and most don’t understand the reality of their purpose and place in life.

But they are also caring and respectful kids who love their families, support their friends, and are a delight to those around them. They are kids that are misunderstood, under challenged and given-up on.

They are also why Compton United exists.

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Compton United is heading to South Africa for World Cup 2010! The Compton United U13-U16 select team is heading to South Africa to participate in an international youth tournament during the 2010 World Cup. To donate funds or read more about the upcoming trip, visit the South Africa 2010 web page. Team members will also be serving as youth correspondents for the South Los Angeles Report during their trip... so stay tuned for updates!

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